What guidance does the Rebbe give about finding a shidduch?
What guidance does the Rebbe give about finding a shidduch?
The Rebbe advises to strive ardently to find a suitable match, like searching for something lost, and to follow the path of Torah and fear of Hashem, while also involving friends and close ones [1]. He also emphasizes that one should not be overly particular about the family background of the potential match, as all Jewish daughters are considered gracious [5]. Additionally, the Rebbe notes that difficulties in finding a match are not necessarily linked to one's profession [2]. It is also suggested that one's efforts in finding a match should be accompanied by trust in Hashem [1].
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- Igrot Kodesh, Letter 4773 — Faith & Bitachon — B"H 18 Tishrei* 5717 Brooklyn Greetings and blessings*, I am responding to your letter. You know the teachings of our holy masters, emphasi…
- Igrot Kodesh, Letter 6375 — Chinuch — By the grace of Hashem*, 8 Tammuz* 5718, Brooklyn, Blessings and greetings, I am responding to your letter, in which you mention the profes…
- Igrot Kodesh, Letter 7082 — Shidduchim — By the grace of Hashem, 21 Marcheshvan* 5720, Brooklyn, I greet you and bless you, I am responding to your letter of 14 Marcheshvan*, in wh…
- Igrot Kodesh, Letter 4895 — Tzedakah — B"H 3 Kislev* 5717 Brooklyn Greetings and blessings, I am responding to your letter of 21 Cheshvan*, in which you tell me that you have bee…
- Igrot Kodesh, Letter 5880 — Tzedakah — B"H 27 Marcheshvan* 5718 Brooklyn Greetings and blessings, I am responding to your letter of 23 Cheshvan*, in which you tell me of the diff…
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